TMZ: stalker

[inthelimelight]

Man...

Some of you analyze this to death. 
What makes a stalker a stalker?  I am glad Deborah didn't wait around to see if he got crazy or not. He could have.  I would have called the cops on his ass also or beat him down with my Prada purse.
Plus... I would talk about it in the press if they asked. I would even write a press release about it.  We all know the rule...any press is good press whether it be positive or negative.  Deborah Gibson is just doing what she has to do.  Some of us forget she is a celebrity...not a saint. Hell...we've all seen her goods in a magazine and she doesn't care.  You think she gives a crap about some crazy guy that lands on her doorstep and leaving her messages?  He ain't no Lorenzo Llamas.  It seems like so many people try to pin her down into being what they want her to be and throw judgments around.  Not many of us are in the same situation as Deborah Gibson.  What would we do in her situation? Call the cops on his ass like a normal person would. What would Jesus do?  Call the cops.

Go back and reread some of the last few posts and think about it.  I agree, some things are lost in translation.  Italian to English can be tricky...but go back and reread.  Defend all you want.  Crazy is crazy in any language.  Who said a stalker always has bad intentions???  I don't think Jordi is mean... just not in touch with boundaries and limits.  Deborah Gibson is not his friend. He is also saying that he is not a fan and she is not his idol. Haha.  What a joke.  The man sped from Texas to California in a matter of hours and knocked on her door.  How many of us would do that?  Maybe Americans are lazy after all... that's a theory.  I know that Jordi says that he's a taxi driver and loves to drive... is that a valid excuse?  I am in education.  You don't see me showing up at Deborah Gibson's house toting a textbook and a bucket of cool whip.

I also think it's funny that some of you badmouth Deborah so much but stay so invested in her career.  You fly all over the place, spend your money and take vacation time away from your jobs just to catch her performances.  If she is so washed up and she is such a ho for posing for Playboy... why do you trip all over yourselves to meet her and get pissed when she doesn't do a meet and greet?  Why do you get jealous when she spends time with other fans and only gives you a few seconds...?  Maybe she's started charging for meet and greets with the hopes that some of you who had spent all your money driving 12 hours wouldn't have the cash to stalk her during her autograph signing. 

I have seen some of her fans... and by the looks of some of them... I wouldn't want to do a meet and greet either.  Call me a cynic or whatever but some of you need to get a life and get real.  A stalker is a stalker.  A celebrity is a celebrity. A hypocrite is a hypocrite.  We are all human but remember this... and maybe Deborah thought of this as she dialed 911... Italians Do It Better.  Gross to think about it huh.
 
Note to Deborah...Good for you.  Forget the cops and call Entertainment Tonight next time.  I would not be ashamed of you one bit and I will Ebay all my Electric Youth cologne to get enough money to hire a taxi to see your next show.  I would even ask you to autograph a Hustler magazine if you were in it.  Your body looks amazing right now.  Flaunt it.  Advance your career and be shameless about it.  Tarnish that squeaky clean image and get down and dirty with the rest of them. Say sh*t or the F word in a song. Get yourself a gimmick and some sexy costumes like Gwen Stefani or Fergie. Gay guys love good girls who go bad... Gay guys don't stalk females either.  They just want to comb your hair or give you makeup tips. Use those gay cruises to their max.  No one there will criticize you for being a bitch...we love it.    Piss em all off...they always have Miley since Britney's gone and screwed up that pop princess tiara you handed her. Put it out there and work it like nobody's business cause someone's lazy eye is always on you.... ( and you know who I am talking about).

Have fun bashing me and picking me apart... I cannot wait cause I don't care what anybody thinks.  Whoo hoo.  I love this forum so much better than DGIF.  You can be real.

[Shane2]

  Gay guys love good girls who go bad... Gay guys don't stalk females either.  They just want to comb your hair or give you makeup tips.

ROTF LMAO.......If you're not joking here then you're an idiot.

[happy]

I haven't had any direct contact with Jordi.  From what I understand it was her lawyer who requested that we not have any direct contact with him while the case was pending.  That's a common thing.  The parties involved are urged not to have any contact with each other unless it's through their lawyers.

I'm agree you OOTB, maybe to feel her as a friend in not a good idea, but she is not my idol, I'm not really one of her fans. Yes I've meet her lot of times and I've been in lot of her concerts and musicals. But she is for my one person like you and everybody here in this forum, the DGIF and me.
If she doesn't like that someone goes her house to visit her, she could say, no don't come and go away. She knows me perfectly, sometimes when I've been in the USA after her shows, if she is busy, I don't ask her nothing, I understad her. Then, when I left the note in her door, she could sent me a message to say no, don't come, it's a bad idea. But to call the police...
Well, don't mind, now the most important is that she has nothing against me and I have nothing against her. But I'd like to contact her to talk about it,I know that's no posible now, but maybe in the future.
About to cut the contact with my friends, it's so hard to me, but the good friends are here now, all you let me talk about it.
Thanks to everybody.
Jordi.

Jordi, what you have done is very, very wrong - you've traveled thousands of miles and spent thousands of dollars on visiting her shows and on her - that makes you a very big fan. You aren't her friend, your a fan. The best thing you can do is let her go now. I doubt very much, she will ever contact you personally but even more so if she's felt scared by you which by the sounds of things she did and that is why she called the cops.  She's not a friend of yours and you of hers and therefore she doesn't owe you anything - not even to tell you to go away, definetly not answer your note or anything else.

When you say she's knows you personally - she doesn't - to her your a fan that travels miles to see her shows. If someone I'd had a few '10 second chats' with turned up on my doorstep when I'd never told them they could or given them my address I would've done the same thing - because I was scared. How you acted wasn't right and you should let her go.

[Jordi]

I haven't had any direct contact with Jordi.  From what I understand it was her lawyer who requested that we not have any direct contact with him while the case was pending.  That's a common thing.  The parties involved are urged not to have any contact with each other unless it's through their lawyers.

I'm agree you OOTB, maybe to feel her as a friend in not a good idea, but she is not my idol, I'm not really one of her fans. Yes I've meet her lot of times and I've been in lot of her concerts and musicals. But she is for my one person like you and everybody here in this forum, the DGIF and me.
If she doesn't like that someone goes her house to visit her, she could say, no don't come and go away. She knows me perfectly, sometimes when I've been in the USA after her shows, if she is busy, I don't ask her nothing, I understad her. Then, when I left the note in her door, she could sent me a message to say no, don't come, it's a bad idea. But to call the police...
Well, don't mind, now the most important is that she has nothing against me and I have nothing against her. But I'd like to contact her to talk about it,I know that's no posible now, but maybe in the future.
About to cut the contact with my friends, it's so hard to me, but the good friends are here now, all you let me talk about it.
Thanks to everybody.
Jordi.

Jordi, what you have done is very, very wrong - you've traveled thousands of miles and spent thousands of dollars on visiting her shows and on her - that makes you a very big fan. You aren't her friend, your a fan. The best thing you can do is let her go now. I doubt very much, she will ever contact you personally but even more so if she's felt scared by you which by the sounds of things she did and that is why she called the cops.  She's not a friend of yours and you of hers and therefore she doesn't owe you anything - not even to tell you to go away, definetly not answer your note or anything else.

When you say she's knows you personally - she doesn't - to her your a fan that travels miles to see her shows. If someone I'd had a few '10 second chats' with turned up on my doorstep when I'd never told them they could or given them my address I would've done the same thing - because I was scared. How you acted wasn't right and you should let her go.

Hi Happy. Thanks for your coment, I know it was a wrong idea, don't worry, I wont go there again.
If Deb was fear it was right to call to the cops, but, you can be sure I'm unable to do something bad to Deb.
But  must to add that I don't like to listen lies from Deb. Now her fans thinks I'm a criminal and this is completly false, hope she tells everybody the true someday.

Jordi.

[happy]

I haven't had any direct contact with Jordi.  From what I understand it was her lawyer who requested that we not have any direct contact with him while the case was pending.  That's a common thing.  The parties involved are urged not to have any contact with each other unless it's through their lawyers.

I'm agree you OOTB, maybe to feel her as a friend in not a good idea, but she is not my idol, I'm not really one of her fans. Yes I've meet her lot of times and I've been in lot of her concerts and musicals. But she is for my one person like you and everybody here in this forum, the DGIF and me.
If she doesn't like that someone goes her house to visit her, she could say, no don't come and go away. She knows me perfectly, sometimes when I've been in the USA after her shows, if she is busy, I don't ask her nothing, I understad her. Then, when I left the note in her door, she could sent me a message to say no, don't come, it's a bad idea. But to call the police...
Well, don't mind, now the most important is that she has nothing against me and I have nothing against her. But I'd like to contact her to talk about it,I know that's no posible now, but maybe in the future.
About to cut the contact with my friends, it's so hard to me, but the good friends are here now, all you let me talk about it.
Thanks to everybody.
Jordi.

Jordi, what you have done is very, very wrong - you've traveled thousands of miles and spent thousands of dollars on visiting her shows and on her - that makes you a very big fan. You aren't her friend, your a fan. The best thing you can do is let her go now. I doubt very much, she will ever contact you personally but even more so if she's felt scared by you which by the sounds of things she did and that is why she called the cops.  She's not a friend of yours and you of hers and therefore she doesn't owe you anything - not even to tell you to go away, definetly not answer your note or anything else.

When you say she's knows you personally - she doesn't - to her your a fan that travels miles to see her shows. If someone I'd had a few '10 second chats' with turned up on my doorstep when I'd never told them they could or given them my address I would've done the same thing - because I was scared. How you acted wasn't right and you should let her go.

Hi Happy. Thanks for your coment, I know it was a wrong idea, don't worry, I wont go there again.
If Deb was fear it was right to call to the cops, but, you can be sure I'm unable to do something bad to Deb.
But  must to add that I don't like to listen lies from Deb. Now her fans thinks I'm a criminal and this is completly false, hope she tells everybody the true someday.

Jordi.

Jordi weather lies are involved or not, what you did was very wrong and Deb was right to have done what she did. If her fans are thinking bad of you then it's because your actions were wrong. I know you like driving, but that doesn't justify you finding her home address, leaving her a message at it to contact you personally and then driving backwards and forwards from different states thinking you'll be able to talk to her personally, that's not healthy behavour.